You will find love at the right time, or even better, if you wait, love will find you. So go get your ass out of that sinkhole of despair, and show them heartbreakers what they choose to miss out on.
Move on with your life, and do it with flair.
Moving on from a heartbreak is hard, but there is more to life than a broken heart and unrequited love. You can't go on wallowing in sorrow forever. You're still young, no matter your age; you have only yet explored a fraction of the world, and there is much more to experience out there.
You will find love at the right time, or even better, if you wait, love will find you. So go get your ass out of that sinkhole of despair, and show them heartbreakers what they choose to miss out on. Move on with your life, and do it with flair. One will never be rid of one's bullies. Just when you think you've got them away from your face and out of your life when you move to another place, new bullies emerge to try and make your life miserable anew. Bullies are everywhere.
Surely, when you ask one bully why he does it, he'll most likely answer, "because I'm bored and I've got nothing else to do, and I wanna have fun." That answer will almost always be true because more often than not, these bullies have got nothing good going for themselves, and their only idea of fun is at the expense of others. Personally, it's amusing to think that whenever these bullies berate, insult, or push you around, they do it during those times when they feel pathetic and inadequate about themselves. Due to the simple fact that they're insecure and jealous, they have the constant need to bring someone down to validate their self-worth and assert that they're better than their victims. Bullies will target anyone they think are inferior to them, but this is just a front to hide their own deficiencies. They waste their time to bother you because they want you to notice them, and they win when they get the attention they so crave from you. This kind of attention seeking only means that you matter to them, and you can win by paying them no attention, because that would make them realize that THEY DON'T MATTER TO YOU. Then, there's the option to stand up for yourself. When a bully pushes you, push back and hold your ground. Don't let yourself be intimidated. Don't let them have their way with you, because if you allow them the first chance, they'll intimidate you every chance they get, so DON'T BE A PUSHOVER. But here's the thing: you can choose to turn the other way, or you can choose to fight back; either way, YOU STILL WIN, because that's simply what bullies are--INSIGNIFICANT LOSERS. At the end of the day, regardless of your social status or your supposed inferiority, you still win more in life than bullies do, because the first time the bully you, they've already lost. They'll never beat you, and they'll never BE you. You can fail at what you don't want, so you might as well take a chance on doing what you love. --Jim Carrey Watch the full speech and be inspired.
There's a saying, "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer";
I say, "I don't have a need for unwanted baggage." Don't dwell too much on things that not supposed to be offensive to you,
unless you want to bear heavier baggage of stress and frustrations. You win some, you lose some; things won't always go your way, but when you stop expecting, something good will eventually force its way into your life to cheer you up.
Just because she's hard to find doesn't mean you will never be able to find her.
Sometimes, she's the one who's looking for you. Age is just a number; you will always be young until you stop believing so.
Be the first one to taunt your own shortcomings;
deprive your detractors the opportunity to have fun at your expense. |
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